For that reason it can happen that honest and truly they cannot identify this fear like something important in person, but is that fear the one that hinders to them emotionally to be more spontaneous and relaxed. What causes that becomes difficult to them to behave of more seductive and attractive way. Again, when knowing the suitable techniques to handle to that fear and the way to explore the real opportunities that they have in front of a certain person, can approach without risking to live no rejection or failure. Learning that they discover that there are many people, who are interested in their form to be. The same techniques allow them to remove to that attractive part its emotions and from its personality and to turn out to be very attractive. In fact, the men and women of this category have a great capacity they use and to maintain it an attitude safe. This is a very useful tool in the conquest.
Nevertheless the negative side of the subject is that same emotional force is behind fears that hinder to them to have more relaxed interpersonal relations and therefore to conquer and/or to have better relations of pair. They use his emotional force to control and hide-and-seek those fears do and it so well they hide that them until of themselves. For that reason it is that truly they think that they are important scared in the subject, do not feel them consciously. The reality is that all the human beings we are these scared. The difference between people and others is not in the fact to be or not to have scared, but in the way in which they handle those fears. This group has learned to control them and to ignore them, and in principle that seems useful, but in the end this strategy is right the one that hinders to them to conquer and to attract.